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Monday, September 10, 2012

Celebrating Ernest Garcia: Artist, Teacher, Activist

Celebrating Ernest Garcia: Artist, Teacher, Activist

Ernest Garcia self-portraitThe memorial celebration for Ernest Garcia took place at the Albuquerque Museum of Art – a place he loved to visit every week. A classical string trio played as more than 60 people gathered on Sunday afternoon to remember man of passion and intellect, an artist, a teacher and a union organizer.

His art was on display in the lobby of the museum and in the community room where the service was held. A framed self-portrait stood on the stage with several flower arrangements. Donna Swanson, a friend, colleague and 17-year president of the Central New Mexico Community College Employees Union that Ernest help start, reminded everyone to silence their cell phones before the event started.

“I suspect most of you share the knowledge that Ernest was not a religious person,” she said. “In fact, he was rather decidedly NOT a believer in a higher power, heaven, hell, and all that. Some of you, I’m sure, have this in common with him. And others of you do not share in his non-belief.”

“But, I believe what we can agree on is what a devoted, passionate, truly good life Ernest led. I am fairly certain he would be rather annoyed that we are even talking about this, but funerals and memorial services exist to not only honor the deceased, but also give comfort to those left behind.”

Ernest died on July 18, only two and a half weeks after receiving a prostate cancer diagnosis. The aggressive cancer spread quickly and he died at home on hospice. Everyone was shocked at the swiftness of his passing.

“Ernest chose a life dedicated to family, friends, students, and in his artwork, beauty. He was passionate about human rights and human dignity, for everyone,” said Donna. She shared a reading culled from Ernest’s collection of writings: “21 Suggestions for Success” by H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

1.    Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
2.    Work at something you enjoy and that’s worthy of your time and talent.
3.    Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
4.    Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
5.    Be forgiving of yourself and others.
6.    Be generous.
7.    Have a grateful heart.
8.    Persistence, persistence, persistence.
9.    Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
10.    Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
11.    Commit yourself to constant improvement.
12.    Commit yourself to quality.
13.    Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect.
14.    Be loyal.
15.    Be honest.
16.    Be a self-starter.
17.    Be decisive even if it means you’ll sometimes be wrong.
18.    Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
19.    Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
20.    Take good care of those you love.
21.    Don’t do anything that wouldn’t make your Mom proud.

“Whatever your beliefs and spiritual system, that about covers all the bases,” she said. “The world is a better place because Ernest was born. How amazing it is and how lucky we are to have had the gift of his love, friendship and ideals.”

Then the window shades were lowered and the room darkened to show a very polished video produced by Ernest’s son David. Brother C.D. Garcia, his first art teacher Frances Heussenstamm, activist Mark Rudd, niece Elizabeth Castillo and son David all provided insights.

Ernest’s parents had moved from New Mexico to Los Angeles to find work, and that’s where he was born in 1944. He and his brother shared a bedroom growing up, and C.D. had to give Ernest his space to make art. “He was always interested in astronomy, and the way he learned to read was by reading the entire astronomy section in the Whittier, California library,” said C.D.

And Ernest was very intellectual. “He wanted to know things, and the priests and nuns in the church just couldn’t give him the answers,” said C.D. Early on, Ernest rejected the Catholic faith.

Ernest Garcia's early art

When he went to art school, Frances Heussenstamm saw the Native American-inspired work in his portfolio and saw great potential for him to make a living as an artist. She noted he was overweight and chronically late, but over time as he was increasingly respected he showed respect back. “Ernest was my favorite student,” she said. “He put a lot into the outlines for his college courses.” He earned his Bachelor of Fine Arts from the University of California.

When Mary came into his life, she adored him and he adored her. They were soul mates. She handmade the embroidered dress she wore at their wedding. When son David came along, then it was all about David. Mary and Ernest have been married for 44 years.

While he was raised in California, his heart called him back to the blue skies and white clouds of New Mexico. He went to Chaco Canyon for three weeks, and as a result produced powerful, mystical images of ruined walls and windows. After many visits, he finally returned in 1989, bringing his wife and son to his ancestral homeland.

He became an art teacher at Albuquerque TVI, which later became Central New Mexico Community College (CNM). His students looked at him with affection, love and interest, even while he was a strict disciplinarian who demanded much. And he was never late to class. In the early 1990s, he organized the CNM Employees Union, a local of the AFT and the AFL-CIO. He designed the banner for the union, which bears the slogan, “The Boat Moves Faster When We All Pull Together.”

CNM Employees Union banner

Ernest’s devotion to union representation was fired up by his grandfather’s experience working at a sawmill in Albuquerque. A heavy beam fell on his grandfather, injuring him badly. However, he was not allowed to leave for nine hours, until the end of his shift, then told to “go home and sleep it off.” He went to Memorial Hospital (now the Hotel Parq Central), where the doctors discovered he had a broken back. He was in the hospital for six months.

After the video ended to applause, David spoke about his father. “The fundamental thing that is so interesting about my father is his strict adherence to the rational while at the same time he lived in awe of the mystery that he pursued in his work. You can see the cosmic contemplation in his last pieces.” These were on display to the left of the stage, different interpretations of a bevy of spiral swirls.

“As I’ve gone through my life I’ve been blessed to stop and think about what he would do. His code was based on respect and treating people with dignity,” said David. “Wherever he may or may not be, I’m thankful to have had him in my life and hope there are a lot of pretty things.”

Ernest Garcia's latest artwork

Brother C.D. noted, “Ernest did everything with passion. He was very political and non-religious. He loved politics, he loved a good debate, but he wanted to know the facts.” He also sensed that there was a part of Ernest that never left the traditions of the Catholic Church, saying how they would kneel for a blessing from their parents before setting out on a journey.

Before the open comments period, the string trio Eleganza played DeBussy’s Reverie for everyone to take a moment of contemplation. Wife Mary read a humorous poem by Ernest titled “The Sneeze and The Lecture.” Niece Elizabeth Castillo and teacher Frances Heussenstamm added to their comments in the video.

During the open comments period, others added details: At full faculty meetings, Ernest predictably would stand up and tell teacher to join the union – not very popular. He fought Atrisco Land Grant sale and was disappointed in the deal that went through. When the vote came in, he said, “Where can I go to resign from my ethnic group?” Students and fellow teachers saluted his excellence as an artist and instructor.

Mark Rudd said, “Ernest was a visual artist and a moral artist. I wish there were more people like him who could get people together and get things done.” Then he introduced the Jewish prayer, the Mourner’s Kaddish. It’s over 2,000 years old, written in Aramaic, which was the language Jesus spoke. The prayer doesn’t mention the deceased, it praises God and ends with a call for peace. All stood for the recitation of the prayer.

In closing, David said that the Albuquerque Art Museum was the closest thing to a church his father had. He came here every Sunday. Everyone was invited to a reception afterward, to enjoy some food, drink, music and Ernest’s art. A memorial fund is being established in his name at CNM.

Here is the obituary that appeared in the Albuquerque Journal:

GARCIA — ERNEST PAULO Born on January 25, 1944 in Los Angeles where his parents had moved from New Mexico to find work, Ernest succumbed to cancer July 18, 2012 at his home in Albuquerque.

A talented visual artist, he began his career as a screen printer and moved on to become an art director for one of California’s largest T-shirt companies. In the eighties, Ernest turned his attention from commercial to fine art, returning to school to pursue a Masters of Fine Art in painting.

His work in this period was largely concerned with Southwestern themes and he developed a style that synthesized a passion for abstract expressionism with the loosely representational. He culled his subject matter from amongst the abandoned ruins of the Anasazi civilizations which provided a strange geometry that was both abstractly beautiful and profoundly mystical.

After many visits to New Mexico he finally “returned” in 1989, bringing his wife and son back to his ancestral homeland. He found work as a teacher at what was then Albuquerque TVI where, in the early nineties he pioneered the studio art program instituting the school’s first studio classes. In the 22 years that followed he touched countless students’ lives in his art history and studio art classes at Central New Mexico Community College. The son of a United Rubber Workers union member, he was a founding member, strong advocate, and long-time officer of the CNM Employees Union, an AFT local.

Ernest was a loving husband and father, a committed citizen, talented artist and moved through life with a genuine sense of wonder and curiosity. He earned the respect and admiration of his colleagues both as an inspiring, caring, and effective teacher and as a dedicated union advocate for professional recognition and fairness for his fellow workers. His memory will continue to inspire the best in us.

Predeceased by loving parents Climaco Damacio and Ignacita Baldonado Garcia; an older brother William; and sister Alice. He is survived by his wife, Mary Humphreys Garcia; son David C. Garcia in Albuquerque; and brother C.D. Garcia of Pagosa Springs, Colorado. A memorial celebration will be held Sunday, August 26 at 4 pm at the Albuquerque Museum of Art. Donations can be made in his honor to a scholarship fund in his name at the CNM Foundation.

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Thursday, September 6, 2012

Celebrating Ellie Sanchez

Celebrating Ellie Sanchez

Ellie and Robert SanchezWhen Ellie Sanchez’s intriguing obituary drew me to her memorial service, I didn’t know she had been a neighbor who lived two blocks down the street from me. Here’s what the obituary said:

SANCHEZ — ELLIE was born on February 16, 1934 and raised in Whittemore, Iowa. She passed away on August 17, 2012. She graduated in Interior Design from the University of Iowa. She worked in Chicago with Heuer Interiors. That is when she met Robert, who was a dental school student at Northwestern University. After Robert’s graduation, they married and immediately left for his tour of duty in Germany. They returned in 1960 and moved to Albuquerque, NM.

Ellie and Robert have five children. Their names are Dr. Robert Sanchez and wife, Lianne, Linda Sanchez, Dr. Gary Sanchez and wife, Julie, Dr. Greg Sanchez and wife, Kate, Dr. Leslie Sanchez-Goettler and husband, Drew. Their grandchildren are Jasmine, Reed, Bella, Jacqueline, Ben, Will and Jordan.

Her pride in life has always been her family. She was that mom you could count on to be at every event and every recital supporting and encouraging each child and their friends. When the children were grown, Ellie decided to start a Real Estate career. She earned the distinction of Albuquerque’s Realtor of the Year. She had that innate ability to connect with people and her success came from making all of her clients feel very special. They became more than clients – they were her friends.

Ellie loved playing the piano. She was an accomplished pianist and loved entertaining others. Later in life she played the piano at the Albuquerque Veteran’s Hospital three days a week for two years. She had a following of patients, nurses, and doctors who would come out into the hall to thank her as she left.

Ellie is the best friend anyone could have. She always put everyone else first. She was the ultimate planner and organizer who always got everyone together and made things happen! Ellie would run into friends wherever she went. She is loved by everyone! A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, August 25, 2012 at 04:00p.m. at Netherwood Park Church of Christ, 5101 Indian School Rd. NE. In lieu of flowers please make donations to the American Cancer Society or Alzheimer’s Association.

Recorded piano music played over the loudspeakers as more than 200 people filed into the sanctuary of the church and a stream of family photos flashed by on the screen at the front. Ellie Sanchez plays on in this lifetime, in more ways than one.

Minister Walter Lane opened the memorial service saying, “Your presence today confirms the impact this remarkable woman had. Though we are sad at her passing, this will be a celebration, with laughter and tears. There is no tragedy in a life so well-lived.”

After the minister read the obituary, Ellie’s children and husband each spoke about her via a video recording prepared in advance. It was a brilliant way for each of them to speak about her without the stress of actual public speaking at the memorial service.

One story involved gift giving at Christmas. Mom’s love language was giving gifts. As the family grew, with five kids, then grandkids, presents from everyone to everyone became a substantial expense. The family decided to reduce the number of gift-giving obligations by doing a drawing for individuals to give to individuals within the family.

Well, come Christmas morning, there’s this huge pile of gifts for everyone all around the tree! The labels indicated the gifts were from celebrities like Patrick Swayze, Robert Redford, and Barbara Streisand.

She loved taking her kids on trips across the country and around the world. When she won big in Las Vegas, she took her daughters on a girls-only trip to New York City for shopping and Broadway shows. She took her youngest Leslie on a cruise.

She was giving to the very end. Even as her memory failed, her music memory lasted. The joy she brought to the veterans in the VA hospital was evident by the many doctors, nurses and staff who came to the service. She helped so many people and she was all about contributing to others. She made people feel better and excited to be with her.

“She is the woman I admire most and I’m thankful her wild spirit is free again,” said Leslie.

At the end of the video, husband Robert spoke and requested the song “The Wind Beneath My Wings.” Michael McDade, a pianist who used to play with Ellie, performed the song live, prompting many to reach for a tissue. Then granddaughter Bella Sanchez played “Up Where We Belong.” Judging from her graceful and beautiful rendition, Ellie’s love of playing piano lives on in her children and grandchildren.

Then granddaughter Jacqueline shared a poem she wrote about her grandmother’s changes because of Alzheimer’s disease. She agreed to allow me to share it with you. It’s titled “Please Remember Me.”

She looked at me
Like I was her favorite grandchild
She locked me in her chestnut gaze
And the rest of the world ceased to exist
Her milky-white smile surrounded me with warmth

Her fingers danced around like acrobats on the piano keys
Creating such beautiful melodies
And a beat that even a stubborn hummingbird could sing along to
She laughed lightly
As I danced and twirled to the music

But soon enough
The piano keys started to weep.
One by one her fingers, graceful as a swan,
Tired.
And her smile became only a smudge on her ivory face

She looked at me
Like I was a familiar person
Though who she could not say.
The only thing that kept me going
Was seeing glimpses of her smile
Flickering brightly every now and then
I could tell that she was pushing so much
An then her brow would furrow
As she tried to find the alphabet that was no longer there

And then she looked at me
Like I was a stranger
In the silence of her gaze
I grasped her frosty hand
And she squeezed back, giving me hope
That she might find me in her memory
That she might remember me one last time.

Flowers and Ellie at piano photoDuring the open comments period, colorful stories emerged. An old friend from childhood related how she was part of a synchronized swim team and encouraged him to dive off a 10-meter springboard. That’s really high up when you’re five years old. “She told me that I could do something I didn’t think I could,” he said. “She also taught me that some days are better than others, and all days are good.”

Daughter-in-law Kate related how early on she wasn’t sure if Ellie’s son Greg was the right guy for her. She lived in Colorado, and in advance of a visit to Albuquerque, called the family home. Ellie answered and immediately launched into all the great things they would do while she visited. They went all over and had a fantastic time. Upon her return to Colorado, Kate told her mother, “I’m not sure if I’m in love with Greg or his family. I’m just glad it was Ellie who answered the phone.”

Daughter-in-law Julie shared a piece of wisdom from Ellie: It’s not quantity of life that’s important, it’s quality of life.”

Ellie’s hairdresser said, “Ellie was the most positive, kind, upbeat person I’d ever met.” She would go to the VA hospital with Ellie to be a page turner for her music. When she accidentally skipped a few pages, she discovered Ellie knew how to play the songs even without the sheet music.

Close family friend Sam Fresquez played guitar and sang “Danny Boy,” which brought more tears and sniffling in the audience.

Oh Danny boy, the pipes, the pipes are calling
From glen to glen, and down the mountain side
The summer’s gone, and all the flowers are dying
‘Tis you, ’tis you must go and I must bide.

But come ye back when summer’s in the meadow
Or when the valley’s hushed and white with snow
‘Tis I’ll be here in sunshine or in shadow
Oh Danny boy, oh Danny boy, I love you so.

And if you come, when all the flowers are dying
And I am dead, as dead I well may be
You’ll come and find the place where I am lying
And kneel and say an “Ave” there for me.

And I shall hear, tho’ soft you tread above me
And all my dreams will warm and sweeter be
If you’ll not fail to tell me that you love me
I’ll simply sleep in peace until you come to me.

I’ll simply sleep in peace until you come to me.

Grandson Reed provided a pastoral message keyed to First Corinthians: Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.

“That was so much my grandma,” he said. “That love isn’t over. It has passed into her husband, children, grandchildren and it is still being passed along. She loved and was loved and showed me what it means to love God.”

Early Ellie photos

A photo slide show set to Ellie playing “As Time Goes By,” “The Days of Wine and Roses,” and “When I Fall in Love” showed Ellie and the family over the years.

Minister Walter Lane commented, “How do you sum up a life in an hour of time?” He pointed to Galatians Chapter 5: The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. “Ellie wasn’t much of a theologian, but how she treated others with these qualities was preaching through her practice. We celebrate a life well lived and the impact of a life lived well.”

Everyone was invited to the social hall immediately after greeting the family, to share a meal and more memories of Ellie Sanchez. In the closing prayer, Rev. Lane said, “Father thank you for being with us in this service. Continue to be with her family in the days to come. Bless each of us and give comfort and strength to the family.”

May Ellie Sanchez’s positive impact continue on through all the lives she touched. If you have thoughts to share, please post in the comments section below!


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