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Monday, July 22, 2013

FTC: Stop Funeral Giant From Getting Bigger

Consumer Group Opposes Merger of Funeral Chain Giants 

July 11, 2013 FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

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South Burlington, VT.—Funeral Consumers Alliance, the only national nonprofit protecting the rights of funeral consumers, urges the Federal Trade Commission to deny the merger of funeral giants Service Corporation International (SCI) and Stewart Enterprises (STEI). If they combine, SCI will amass more than 2,000 funeral homes and cemeteries from coast to coast, and will be vastly larger than any other funeral home and cemetery chain.

Unlike many other retail chains, bigger isn’t better when it comes to funerals. Unlike Wal-Mart or Costco, SCI’s savings from economies of scale don’t get passed on to the customer family. They go to the company’s true customer, the shareholder.

“It’s alarming to think that a company with a long track record of abusing consumers at the worst times of their lives might get even bigger,” said Josh Slocum, FCA’s executive director. “For at least 15 years grieving families around the country have complained to us about the practices at SCI funeral homes and cemeteries. From lying about options in order to boost the funeral bill, to digging up graves to re-sell them to another unsuspecting family, to denying the legal rights of LGBT people to make funeral arrangements for their partners. You name it, we’ve heard it.”

“SCI has devoured the other funeral home chains over the past several years and now is the king of the hill in most major metropolitan markets. And the results have not been good for consumers. These mergers have led to higher prices and deteriorating service,” Slocum said.

Most people don’t even know they’re doing business with a multinational Wall Street chain when they call their local funeral home. “Smith and Sons Funeral Home” may not have anything to do with the Smith family at all. Only SCI’s consumer-friendly brand-name, Dignity Memorial, gives a clue to the ownership. Price surveys by Funeral Consumers Alliance groups have long documented how Dignity-owned businesses are among the most expensive in any region you look.

“Dignity Memorial” is no stranger to scandal: 

Funeral Consumers Alliance has collected hundreds of complaints from families around the country. These families report SCI funeral homes and cemeteries have violated federal regulations protecting grieving consumers from funeral fraud, that strangers are found buried in graves families bought decades before, and that aggressive salespeople (SCI calls them “family service counselors”) have lied about non-existent government regulations so consumers would be forced to buy expensive burial services they didn’t want.

Funeral Consumers Alliance reminds the Federal Trade Commission that funeral purchases are unlike any other in their potential to harm the customer. Families buying funeral and cemetery services are incredibly vulnerable and have been subject to deceitful and egregious conduct. Indeed, the FTC’s own “Funeral Rule,” enacted in 1984, was a response to the overwhelming record of routine deception and consumer abuse across the funeral industry.

“This is not a run of the mill merger; this isn’t about whether a $20 retail product will cost consumers $5 more,” Slocum said. “We’re talking real money here. Funeral consumers often make great economic sacrifices to bury their loved ones. The average full-service funeral runs in excess of $7,000 and often for much more at SCI’s Dignity locations. Especially when it has faced less competition, SCI has increased prices and we can expect more of the same if this merger occurs. Given the lack of knowledge about funeral options and the stress of grief, we can’t just say a ‘rational consumer’ will vote with their dollars and choose another funeral home. That’s not how the unique funeral transaction works, and that reality is why the FTC specifically regulates
funeral homes.”


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Saturday, July 20, 2013

Second Annual Indigent Burial for Bernalillo County

Second Annual Indigent Burial for Bernalillo County

Evangelico Cemetery GateYesterday’s Albuquerque Journal Upfront column by Joline Gutierrez Krueger featured today’s indigent burial ceremony to be held by Bernalillo County and Riverside Funeral Home.

She profiled Joe Speer, “performance poet, raconteur, world traveler and film producer,” who died of pancreatic cancer on January 25, 2011 at the age of 62. His cremated remains will be among the remains of 88 others to be buried at 11:00 a.m. today in the Evangelico Cemetery near Blake and Coors SW.

Here’s how her column starts:

If there’s one thing that is certain in life, it’s that it ends.

That’s also where certainty ends. Death comes in myriad ways, usually not in the hour or the way of our choosing.

Some of us die alone. Some die poor. Some die with no desire for the grim grandeur of a gilded coffin and calla lilies because we had no desire for grandeur while we lived.

And some end up as ash and bone in a cardboard box as the responsibility of the county.

In Bernalillo County, that’s not such a bad way to go.

On Tuesday, 89 of those whose ashes were never claimed for a requisite two years, or whose loved ones could not afford the cost of death, will be laid to rest en masse at the Evangelico Cemetery at Blake and Coors SW.

The boxes will be placed together into a casket and lowered into the ground with a headstone marking this last resting place. Music, eulogies from different denominations, final words from loved ones and flowers will be a part of the services, provided through the county’s Unclaimed/Indigent Cremation Program.

Read the entire column here.

This is the second annual mass burial of indigent/unclaimed remains for Bernalillo County residents. Last year, I covered last year’s ceremony and did a YouTube video of the entire service. Read about and watch last year’s service.

The county has since created a searchable database for unclaimed remains. Here’s the link:  www.bernco.gov/unclaimedpersons.

Many thanks to all those who made the effort to provide a dignified burial for the remains of the poor, the homeless, and the unclaimed people who once walked this earth and made their own contributions to our society.

Joline’s column ends with a quote that Joe Speer will now have an audience for eternity. What a way to go!


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Friday, July 19, 2013

Movie Night at the Funeral Home

Movie Night at the Funeral Home

Last night, we held the first Movie Night at a funeral home and it was a big success!

FRENCH Funerals-Cremations Rio Rancho Event Center hosted a great group of people who came out to see the film Get Low. This “true tall tale” was based on actual events, the funeral party created and attended by Felix “Bush” Breazeale, held on June 26, 1938. Movie night info and the true story behind Get Low here.

Yes, it’s true. Here’s a picture of his headstone.

Felix Bush Headstone

According to a Breazeale family website, here’s how Uncle Bush got the idea to hold a living funeral:

In the fall of 1937, one member of the Breazeale clan had an idea that would bring him world fame in less than a year. Seventy-three year old, Felix Bushaloo Breazeale, widely known as Uncle Bush, in conversation with a local businessman, was asked what plan he had for a large, prime black walnut tree that was growing near his home. “Gonna make my coffin out of it”, was his straightforward response.

That lead into a discussion of death, dying, funerals, and funeral services. At one point the businessman commented, “Isn’t it a shame that we never know what is going to be said about us at our funeral?”

Further talks lead the two to conclude that having one’s funeral while one was still alive was a sound idea.Uncle Bush mulled it over for a while and decided it was such a fine idea that he was going to arrange to have his own funeral just as soon as he could finish building his coffin.

So, he felled the big black walnut tree, had it milled into boards, and began constructing his final resting place. The more he worked on it, the more determined he became. He wanted to hear his own eulogy. By late spring, 1938, everything was in order.

Yet, the dramatic retelling in the movie is a bit different. Here’s the intro to the film screening:

Felix Bush Breazeale at his living funeral. The real Felix Bush Breazeale at his living funeral.


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Thursday, July 18, 2013

Facing Mortality on A Good Goodbye TV

Facing Mortality on A Good Goodbye TV

Fr. Arturo OlivasIf you were given only a few months to live, what would you do? We wrap up the interviews on A Good Goodbye TV with a special guest who is facing his own mortality.

Arturo Francisco Olivas is a santero artist, a Franciscan Brother and a cancer survivor who has outlived the initial prognosis he was given for terminal lung cancer.

On September 16, 2011, he was hospitalized after numerous visits to his primary care physician for what seemed to be an extended bout of pneumonia. After tests confirmed that he had lung cancer, he was given eight to 12 months to live.

Medical treatments of steroids, radiation, and a targeted chemotherapy regimen with a new drug designed for his type of lung cancer began immediately. Only 10% of the people who receive this new chemotherapy treatment respond well to the drug, and he is in that minority. When this interview was recorded in March 2013, Fr. Arturo had been living with the cancer for 18 months.

Among the topics discussed:

Preparing for death by living fully and deeplyHow his faith as a Franciscan informs his spiritualityWhat he is doing to prepare for his final arrangementsThe positive aspects of skull imagery and Dia de los MuertosTalking with children about death as a part of lifeMaking artwork and saying goodbye

This longer interview has been edited into two separate programs which start airing on July 2 for the first part and July 9 for the second part.

A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die is currently airing on Albuquerque’s Comcast cable system on the uPUBLIC.tv Channels 26 and 27. Each episode is scheduled as follows:

On Channel 26, the time slots are Tuesdays at 4:00 p.m. and Wednesdays at 1:00 p.m. On Channel 27, the program airs Thursdays at 5:00 p.m. and Sundays at 9:00 a.m.Episodes will also appear on both channels in additional unscheduled repeats.

A Good Goodbye TV is an educational and entertaining 12-episode series of 30-minute programs with expert interviews on “everything you need to know before you go.”

Host Gail Rubin brings a light touch to a serious subject. Like her award-winning book, A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die, the television program covers information most people don’t know about until faced with a death in the family.

A Good Goodbye opening

The first 12 programs will become a set of DVDs with three interviews per disc. A Good Goodbye TV interviews will be grouped by content:

DVD 1  Over My Dead Body: Essentials of Funeral Planning – Preneed funeral planning, cremation, cemetery Q&ADVD 2  Trending Topics: Pets, Funeral Parties and Going Green – Pet loss grief and disposition choices, life celebrations and celebrants, green burial and eco-friendly funeralsDVD 3  Death and Taxes: A Primer on Finances and Funerals – estate planning, financial planning, cost managementDVD 4  Good Grief! Save Money, Live and Die Better – Medicaid and more, advance directives, grief counseling

SPECIAL OFFER: Place your advance order for the four-DVD set and get a free copy of the book A Good Goodbye! Episodes are currently being finalized. Place your pre-production order today for only $39.97 plus shipping. A book will be sent right away to those who place advance orders. CLICK HERE to order.


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Cartoon on Caskets for the Claustrophobic

Cartoon on Caskets for the Claustrophobic

Today’s Close to Home cartoon shows mourners filing past a casket that appears to be the size of a TUFF Shed. A woman comments to another visitor “Frank had claustrophobia all his life.”

This goes way beyond over-sized caskets for the obese! Guess anyone who’s got a fear of small spaces would be in trouble with cremation, too, as they’d be put in a cardboard box and then into a retort.

Close to Home Claustrophobia Casket Cartoon


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Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Cartoon on Weddings and My Take on Funerals

Cartoon on Weddings and My Take on Funerals

In today’s Sunday funnies, the Luann comic strip looks at all the details of organizing weddings. What most folks don’t think about is the need to apply the same detailed planning to organizing funerals.

Luann’s brother Brad is going to marry his sweetheart Toni. Toni has been looking at wedding websites and has found a list of things to do before “I Do.” She tells Brad, “Ready for this? To plan our wedding we have 228 decisions to make.” He replies, “Well, I’ve already made one decision. I vow to love you for the rest of my life.”

She replies, ” That’s very sweet, Brad. But you still have to help on the other 227.” He grins, “What if I vow not to interfere with wedding plans? Would that count as helping?”

Now, Brad and Toni are planning their wedding months in advance. Yet most people do not discuss, think about or plan for their own funeral or for anyone else. Would you want to make those 227 decisions in the span of 48 hours?

You might not have as many as 227 decisions to make when a death occurs, but it will feel like it. Being prepared and planning ahead makes it much easier for those you love. If you would like a list of 50 Things That Must Be Done When A Death Occurs, email a note to me care of Gail[at]AGoodGoodbye.com and I’ll send it to you pronto!

Luann on weddings


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Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Friday Funeral Funny: Four Husbands

Friday Funeral Funny: Four Husbands Flaming Tree and Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death® Gail Rubin, The Doyenne of Death®

So many folks send funeral jokes my way, it’s time to start sharing!

The local news station was interviewing an 80-year-old lady because she had just gotten married for the fourth time. The interviewer asked her questions about her life, about what it felt like to be marrying again at 80, and then about her new husband’s occupation.

“He’s a funeral director,” she answered. “Interesting,” the newsman thought. He then asked her if she wouldn’t mind telling him a little about her first three husbands and what they did for a living.

She paused for a few moments, needing time to reflect on all those years. After a short time, a smile came to her face and she answered proudly, explaining that she had first married a banker when she was in her 20's, then a circus ringmaster when in her 40's, and a preacher when in her 60's, and now – in her 80's – a funeral director.

The interviewer looked at her, quite astonished, and asked why she had married four men with such diverse careers.

She smiled and explained, “I married one for the money, two for the show, three to get ready, and four to go.”

Thanks to the folks at the Funeral Consumers Alliance of Vermont for passing this one along!

Got a funeral joke you want to share? Please send it to Gail[at]AGoodGoodbye.com and I’ll give you credit and a link to your site when it’s posted!


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Monday, July 15, 2013

A Good Goodbye TV Series Begins Airing Again Monday

A Good Goodbye TV Series Begins Airing Again Monday Gail Rubin on set of A Good Goodbye Gail Rubin on set of A Good Goodbye

UPublic.TV on Comcast Cable in Albuquerque is going to start running the entire A Good Goodbye TV show series again, beginning this coming Monday, July 15. They are re-starting the series from the first episode, in new time slots.

Each new episode starts on Monday. The new air days and times on each channel are:

CH 26: Mondays at 2:00 p.m. and Sundays at 3:30 p.m.

CH 27: Wednesdays at 11:30 p.m. and Sundays at 5:30 p.m.

Monday’s episode features Barbara Stewart and Mark Ballard with FRENCH Funerals-Cremations discussing pre-need funeral planning. Barbara is the company’s community liaison and Mark is director of pre-need sales.

Topics covered during the interview include:

good reasons to pre-plan a funeral BEFORE there’s a death;misconceptions and reasons people avoid advance funeral planning;how a Medicaid funeral trust can help people protect assets;examples of personalized funerals that can be planned out ahead of time;how to use an online planner to make the planning process easier.

A Good Goodbye TV is an educational and entertaining 12-episode series of 30-minute programs with expert interviews on “everything you need to know before you go.” The series will become available as online streaming videos and on DVDs (see more about that below).

Host Gail Rubin brings a light touch to a serious subject. Like her award-winning book, A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don’t Plan to Die, the television program covers information most people don’t know about until faced with a death in the family.

A Good Goodbye opening

The first 12 programs will become a set of DVDs with three interviews per disc. A Good Goodbye TV interviews will be grouped by content:

DVD 1  Over My Dead Body: Essentials of Funeral Planning – Preneed funeral planning, cremation, cemetery Q&ADVD 2  Trending Topics: Pets, Funeral Parties and Going Green – Pet loss grief and disposition choices, life celebrations and celebrants, green burial and eco-friendly funeralsDVD 3  Death and Taxes: A Primer on Finances and Funerals – estate planning, financial planning, cost managementDVD 4  Good Grief! Save Money, Live and Die Better – Medicaid and more, advance directives, grief counseling

SPECIAL OFFER: Place your advance order for the four-DVD set and get a free copy of the book A Good Goodbye! Episodes are currently being finalized. Place your pre-production order today for only $39.97 plus shipping. A book will be sent right away to those who place advance orders. CLICK HERE to order.


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